Good News!

Good News to deliver!

This blog has been moved and will be re-launched on a new platform.

Click here for the new site!

The launch date is set for January 28th, so get excited!



Ms.GLAM

Sad Story…

Obviously I haven’t updated in a while.

 

And this hasn’t been by choice.

So the news is: GLAM is going on a hiatus.

 

But when it returns in January 2010, everything will be brand new.

 

Have a Happy Holidays! :)

 

*MG

In The Spotlight: Russian Roulette

Rihanna is back. New Style…in fashion & in music. Take a listen of her new single off of her upcoming album Rated R, slated for a November 23rd release.

Russian Roulette – Rihanna

 

This was not what I was expecting after watching the promo vid, but we all know Rihanna is queen of surprises. This song was penned by none other that Ne-Yo.

The only thing that sets me off a little are the lyrics. I know Rihanna has fans from many different age ranges, but I do not think this song (a long with a bunch of other songs out) are fitting for young teenagers. BUT at least she’s preparing us for what seems like will be a dark album, hence the lyrics and the album title “Rated R” . We’ll see, I love Rihanna either way.

 

How do you feel about the new song? Do you think it will do well?

 

MG*

Making the Dream: Be an Optimist!

Something I’ve learned in one week:

If life is too fast and you begin to wait for it to slow down, you are only bringing yourself down. If life is too fast, then you need to run fast. If life is beating you in the race, re-evaluate as you begin to sprint. There’s no going back, there’s no time to stop. There’s only room to grow, and keep it moving.

I considered just ending the post like that, to let that sink in. But I do want to share a little of what’s going on right now.

• I’ve started a business.
• I’m learning how to brand.
• I’m finally letting my schedule become a habit.
• I’m going on vacation ( a mini one) in two weeks.
• I’m learning something new about SOMETHING every.single.day.
• The new additions to my blog will be up within the next few weeks, and I’m so excited to share with all.
• You may want to pay attention to the new additions, because I heard that there may be free prizes involved…

 

 

;) MG*

Daily Quote: Are You Opportunistic?

“A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.”- Winston Churchill

You can have the emotion of fear and still fear not. You can accomplish the task even if you’re shaking. - Joyce Meyer

"Drip by drip, the bucket fills up. Consistency is the key. It's ok to start small and build up." – Anonymous

 

Will you let your fears and insecurities determine your future? Will you allow your failures to wash away your pending success? Why? How very RARE is it to see a successful person that has made it to the top without failing, messing up, being afraid, etc. If Bill Gates let his insecurities about being a nerd and geek affect him, do you think Microsoft would even be known? What if Oprah let her own background affect her dream & drive…What kind of role model would we have for our aspiring talk show hosts ( Maury, Jerry Springer?) ?

Don’t give up.

 

MG*

Daily Quote : Moses Hadas

 

“I have read your book and much like it.”

-Moses Hadas (1900 - 1966)

 

Not many words. But packs a great message. When you, and other, look back on your life and accomplishments, will it be like reading a book for second time? Can you guess from memory what’s going to happen in the next chapter? Does is seem really familiar to the next person’s book?

It shouldn’t. I’m all about originality. Whatever your field, whatever your aspirations, I hope that you will take the challenge to be different. Why are so many successful and unsuccessful? Because they stepped out and brought something new to the table, something different. And you can as well.

In everything you do, be original. You want your book to be a one-of-a-kind masterpiece.

 

 

MG*

In the Spotlight: Effortlessly GLAMorous

It’s only recently that I have begun to pay real attention to Beyonce’s style. Starting her career as a member of a girl group, your identity can easily be lost. For the years after, as she began her solo & acting career, there’s a kind of blossoming that we notice as Ms. Knowles-Carter finds her own sense of style. She’s come a long way from matching glitter outfits and latex pants. I describe Beyonce’s style as effortless and elegant. She’s never raunchy, or even flashy. Every time you see her, you see class. Here are some of her looks from relaxed to evening :

(photos via beyoncegallery.net [beyonce daily])

 

 

MG*

GLAM : Week in Review

Pictures of events of this past week. Click on the picture to find out more. Enjoy!

 

 

MG*

GLAM week in review: Congratulations Mr. President!

There was an original post, but with the announcement of some GREAT news about our President, this post will feature the MOST important event this week:








MG*

Trendy Thursdays : The “Nitty – Gritty”

Thursdays have been dedicated to solely fashion. Amazing, right? I know, I know.

Some consider it far too time-consuming & annoying to attempt to “get dressed” during the weekdays in college. There’s a common misconception that there is just not enough time in a busy college student’s life to actually devote time to style.

Wrong.

Each day I see a young woman (and even an occasional young man) who has obviously put some thought into their wardrobe of the day. And that inspires me. Nowhere is it written that the only attire you should wear from 7am – 6pm are a pair of Nike running shorts and your boyfriend’s T-shirt. Not for everyday. How do you know that you won’t run into your future employer or someone else of great importance at this time in your life (God forbid you run into Rihanna!)

But seriously. You’ve heard this so many times before: Appearance is everything. When you meet people, whenever you’re trying to make an impression, the first thing people will notice is your appearance & style.

So to inspire those of you who think it’s impossible to be stylish as a college student (or even as a young professional), these posts are just for you. It is possible. And I will feature various students that are making it happen.

Until next Thursday!

 

MG*

Making the Dream : Autumn leaves…

I’ve mentioned before that I recently read an article that really put some things into perspective when it comes to my blog. One main thing that I really took away from it was a quote : “We are the CEOs of our own companies: ME Inc.”

Branding.

I’ve heard the term tossed around a lot, and have seen people refer to it on various social networking sites. But I never really paid much attention to it. After reading that article, it occurred to me how successful this blog could become; how this could be an outlet to future endeavors; how this is ultimately a part of my portfolio.

These thoughts gave way to another : start branding now? Yes. If not now, then when? I’d rather be making mistakes and learning now then having to fall on my face with no prior experience in anything when I begin my career. So, for those of you who are interested in any kind of entrepreneurship or business, here are some more tips taken from the article:

-Discover what makes you different. Ask yourself these questions: What is it that my product or service does that makes it different? Give yourself the traditional 15-words-or-less contest challenge. Take the time to write down your answer. And then take the time to read it. Several times. If your answer wouldn't light up the eyes of a prospective client or command a vote of confidence from a satisfied past client, or -- worst of all -- if it doesn't grab you, then you've got a big problem.

- There's literally no limit to the ways you can go about enhancing your profile. Try moonlighting! Sign up for an extra project inside your organization, just to introduce yourself to new colleagues and showcase your skills -- or work on new ones. Or, if you can carve out the time, take on a freelance project that gets you in touch with a totally novel group of people. If you can get them singing your praises, they'll help spread the word about what a remarkable contributor you are.

 

Get more insight from the article “The Brand Called You” written by Tom Peters.

 

 

Ms.GLAM

Daily Quote : be GREAT.

 

“You were born to do great things.The frustration that's been gnawing at your spirit is urging u to get on with it.” – Ralph Marston

"Excellence is to do a common thing in an uncommon way." - Booker T. Washington

"We are CEOs of our own companies: Me Inc. " - Tom Peters

“Make the most of your day. This morning, make a decision for the day to be great. It'll turn out PHENOMENAL.” :) – GLAM

 

 

MG*

How-to… Wear the Sheer Trend

 

If you’ve been paying attention to fashion lately, you’ll notice a recurring trend : sheer. We’ve seen it before by Madonna, Gwyneth Paltrow, and most recently by Rihanna.

But sheer for everyday wear? Yes! Worn the correct way, of course. Try these affordable looks!

For a “relaxed” day look:

Sheer Flutter Top – Forever 21 $25; Faux Leather Legging – Wet Seal $20; Peep-Toe Bootie – gojane.com $23;

 

Sheer in the moonlight…

 

Sheer Back Bodycon Dress – oasis-stores.com $55; LARISSA Patent Sandal – topshop.com $95; Yellow quilted clutch – dorothyperkins.com $29

 

 

MG*

 

 

[Don’t like these ideas? Submit your own version of “how-to” wear sheer! It could be featured in future posts!]

Making the Dream : Just Gotta Make It…

Woo!

If I didn’t have a dream, if I didn’t have a goal, if I couldn’t see this vision… this blog would’ve crashed and burned by now.

No more room for excuses! This blog will essentially become a part of my portfolio as I gain experience before entering my career field. A one woman show.

For those of you who follow my blog, one day we’ll all look back and see how far it has grown. It’s actually been over one year since I first posted under this name, at this domain. MUCH has changed since then.

And there’s more change to come. After recently reading an article a fellow blogger posted on Twitter ( Thanks @LoudPen !), my inspiration and motivation kicked into to HIGH gear.

 

So, for the third time, welcome a new & improved GLAM blog.

Enjoy! :)

 

MG*

Making the Dream : I’m Still Here!

WOW!

I’ve had an interesting past two weeks, and by the grace of God I’m still standing on my own two feet. I do have some news to bring : some great new developments in the making of the dream are to come soon, and an announcement.

What’s the announcement…glad you asked! Some of my readers know me personally, and will understand this announcement completely. I’m what you call a “Type A” person (according to my big sister, who advises my life :) ), which basically means that I’m very driven, a perfectionist, and by nature a “busy-body”. I do not like stand-stills, or to just stand still. So naturally, being a college student, you can correctly assume that I’m involved. This semester has been a sort-of “coming into myself” stage for me with my spiritual life, my education, my social life, and of course my style. With that being said, the time I assumed I was going to have has somewhat disappeared. NO! I’m not cancelling my blog. This is a valuable asset to my future. However, the frequency of my posts will be restructured in order to match with my lifestyle. My blog is going to be constantly changing until it finds its own style.

So pray for me everyone! I’m really learning a lot this year about life in general. I’m trying out some new things and hopefully I will be able to talk more about them at a later date. But until then, my next post will detail the newest update for the blog. Also, sorry about this background but it will have to suffice for the time being.

 

 

:) MG*

Twitter Thursdays : The Power of Words

Today, I would like to spotlight on Ralph Marston.

Ralph Marston, a … well I’m not sure what to title him as. This individual has accomplished many things in his career from website development to marketing. But that is not why he’s being featured on Epitome of GLAM today.

I’m sure you’ve noticed, many of my quotes on this blog and on twitter come from @ralphmarston. Every day on more than 500 websites, Marston’s daily motivation gives someone a boost to keep going, keep striving. This segment, known as The Daily Motivator , is also broadcast on radio programs.

Below I’ve posted some of his daily quotes. If you aren’t following this man on twitter, or subscribing to his feed, I can definitely tell you that you’re missing out.

• Ur imagination reaches beyond ur thoughts & ur mind. Its transforming power comes because it is connected 2 all u are.
• Be clear about your purpose and you'll harness the ample energy that's already yours.
• Your circumstances do not hold you back.Rather, they reveal how much you've been holding yourself back.
• Be appreciative of what's right with your life. In your gratitude is the power to make it even better.
• If you were just 1 step away from reaching ur goal,would you take that step?How do u know, right now, that you're not?

-taken from the Ralph Marston Daily Motivator twitter, @ralphmarston. His website is www.greatday.com

 

MG*

Daily Quote : Pressure Control

“ Some things I’ll never know, and I have to let them go.”

-lyrics from “Pressure” by Paramore

I have this habit of when things happen that either don’t go my way, or just aren’t right period…I bottle it up and “pretend” to let it go. However, bottling it up only adds more pressure, on top of pressure. This is wrong. There are things in life that are simply out of our control. We can’t change time, we can’t step into someone else’s life for a second, and we can’t make the world turn the way we would like for it to.

And that’s ok.

One thing I believe is essential for learning to control emotions, etc. in school & the workplace, is that when something goes wrong, 9 times out of 10 it is out of our control (unless you caused it to go wrong, different story). If the bus was late because one of the two drivers called in sick, that’s out of our control. We will just be late to work. The description on life NEVER said that things were ALWAYS going to work out.

My challenge to everyone today is to not let your anger build up. Don’t believe that there is something more than what you’re already giving that is necessary for you to hold life’s actions in your hands. There isn’t. When something goes wrong, accept it. If there are any other outlets/options, then use them. If not, there is nothing you can do. It is out of your control! And you should feel good about that fact.

MG*

Making the Dream : Discipline is Key

This is supposed to be an Epitome of… post. I’m aware. That will resume next week, so get excited!

Today is about making the dream! I’m finally getting into the swing of things this semester. Everything doesn’t just seem like a huge jumble anymore. Granted, I do have a lot going on. But I never complain about that, it’s the lack of sleep I complain about. According to my family, I am Type A. So, obviously, I love being involved and on-the-go…and I love working under pressure. And that is something I’ve realized in the past two weeks. Throw a challenge my way, and I will pounce right on it with no reservations. One thing I noticed I lacked though, was discipline. I am not superwoman, and I can not put my name on everything. Many times I want to just be so successful and just so… out there, that I lose sight of why I even want to do something.

So, something that I’ve started working on is elimination. I've been taking everything that I’m interested in getting involved in and all my tasks, and simply eliminating the unnecessary. There is absolutely no reason for me to join three clubs, that all have the same purpose statement, and they all have the same people in them. NO! I won’t allow myself to do it. Each week I will go through and make eliminations, and then consider the time available for the task/activity. And this is where discipline comes in. 1) Discipline to say NO, 2) Discipline to be honest with myself ALL THE TIME.

GLAM readers, pray for my discipline. Because I need to learn, and quick!

Nobody said making the dream happen was going to be easy? But I bet I will make it look that way! :)

 

MG*

Daily Quote : Back to School

“Every single one of you has something you’re good at. Every single one of you has something to offer. And you have a responsibility to yourself to discover what that is.” – President Barack Obama, 2009

Today, our President will deliver a speech to youth across the country in school. His message is to be motivational, to give this youth a hope.

I believe that this quote posted is great for youth, but I believe that it can apply to anyone. It’s during times like this recession, when people are losing their jobs left & right, where they either go two ways : find a job that will trap you again, or go after your dream. I’ve read many articles recently about individuals who have lost their jobs, careers, etc., and are now pursuing their talents and dreams. But why now? Why not ten years ago? Why did it take a recession for them to realize?

President Obama makes a good point. Everyone, despite what your mind is telling you right now, has something that they are good at. I believe that God has put in each of us a unique gift. And I don’t think he intended for those gifts to lie dormant in us throughout our lives. That would defeat the purpose of gifts, now wouldn’t it?

This statement is a challenge. You know that you have something you’re good at. Maybe you’re not sure what it is yet. Or maybe you’re just too nervous to step out on a limb and go after it. Whatever the case may be, your doubts and reservation could, ultimately, prohibit our nation from moving forward. Ever thought of it that way? Just like the saying ‘It takes a village…’; you may think that your gift is of no value or purpose, but that’s where you are so wrong.

So I, and our President, challenge everyone to discover what your gift may be. By all means, I do not mean for you to go and quit your job ( if that’s what it takes, then do you!), but do launch that journey on finding it out. We ALL have something to offer, remember that.

MG*

How-To… Find Your Craft

[And by craft, I don’t mean arts & crafts. ;) ]

President Obama will definitely inspire some young minds today as he delivers his Back to School speech. But it is not only for the children. Many of us are still struggling with discovering what it is that were good at. So, I’m going to list a few tips to help guide you in your ‘craft discovery”. Enjoy!

• Write down a top ten list of things that you enjoy doing. Then narrow the list down to five. For each one, write why you enjoy that activity and honestly rate how well you are at each task/activity. Pay attention when you are doing these activities.
• Gather a group of close friends and/or family and ask them to compile a list of five things that they believe you are good at. Compare your list with theirs, and find the consistencies. Highlight those and pay extra attention to those.
• Do not limit yourself. Be very open to trying new things. Nobody has done everything, so do not box yourself in!
• If you feel that you already know your craft, or you think you’ve got a good handle on what it is : PERFECT IT! You need to build your craft. Some things come naturally to people, but many times you will need to start and try again. Whatever it is that you decide to go after, you want to be the best at it. So work on it! I would suggest daily, or however often your schedule allows.

I hope these were beneficial and will help you to begin honing your craft. If any of you have any other tips or ideas, feel free to leave a comment and share them.

MG*